It was supposed to be a sweet Sunday outing for ice cream and coffee, but what happened inside a New Jersey café exploded into one of the summer’s most viral scandals — a saga that has left the internet divided, friendships strained, and parents everywhere second-guessing where they take their toddlers.
The scene unfolded at Hazelnut Café, a chic seaside spot in Lavallette known for its stylish décor and curated boutique vibe. For Kathy Denman, a mom from Pompton Plains, it was nothing more than a casual stop with her family. But in a split second, everything changed.
While Kathy was paying at the counter, her three-year-old daughter Allie shifted in her seat. Surveillance cameras captured the moment: the toddler’s foot pressed against the leg of what appeared to be a glamorous marble-topped table. In an instant, the nearly $1,600 Anthropologie console tipped forward and slammed to the ground. A crash echoed through the packed café, patrons gasped, and fragments from the underside splintered across the floor.
No one was hurt, but the little girl froze in terror. Kathy described her daughter as “scared and nervous,” with the embarrassment only magnified as strangers rushed to lift the toppled furniture. Relief that her child wasn’t injured was short-lived. What happened next turned a simple accident into a viral flashpoint.
According to Kathy, before she could even leave the café, she was pressured to hand over her driver’s license, credit card, email, phone number, and even her husband’s details. “All she kept repeating was, ‘Our policy is: you break it, you pay for it,’” Kathy recalled tearfully in a TikTok video filmed later that evening. “I was completely humiliated.”
That TikTok has since been viewed more than 14 million times. And while Kathy’s emotional account captured sympathy from parents everywhere, the café owners — twin sisters Kimberly and Jenna Campfield — quickly hit back with their own version of events.
The sisters insisted that no one was ever held against their will and that Kathy was never charged for the damage. They said the request for her information was purely for insurance purposes. They also claimed they personally called afterward to check on the family and offer support. “We are extremely grateful no one was hurt,” they said in a statement, while also reminding the public that the accident was caught entirely on video.
That’s when the real scandal began.
Online sleuths dug into the story and discovered the exact table: a console piece marketed by Anthropologie as a decorative, not dining, table. Worse still, its weight was listed as just over 100 pounds, not the “600 pounds” the family had been told. Critics accused the café of poor judgment for using delicate designer furniture in a bustling eatery, while others argued that toddlers must be watched more carefully in public spaces and that businesses cannot foot the bill for every accident caused by a child.
Caught in the firestorm, the café sisters removed all tables from their locations, declaring they wanted to “eliminate any risk of a similar incident.” But by then, the damage wasn’t just to the furniture — it was to reputations.
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Kathy, for her part, accepted an eventual apology from the café, announcing she wanted to move forward peacefully. Yet millions remain unconvinced on both sides. Was the café too harsh with a shaken mother whose toddler made an innocent mistake? Or was it right for a small business to demand accountability for a luxury table destroyed in seconds?
The debate rages on — not just about who was right or wrong, but about something deeper: where responsibility falls when accidents blur the lines between parenting, safety, and business.
One thing is certain: the crash of that $1,600 table has done more than split wood — it has split public opinion. And the echo of that fall may linger long after the dust has settled. The only question left is this: whose side are you on?